Letter to my teacher

I am not stupid or dumb, but I have a Learning Difficulty which means I learn differently. This information has been put together by a group of children with learning difficulties to help you understand me and to show you how I need to be taught in your class.

Please:

Put me into a group that will help me to behave, not encourage me to be the class clown. I need the best role models.
Do not expect me to understand what you have said just because the rest of the class does. Just check on me so that I know what I am supposed to be doing and that I have the right equipment to do it.
I get angry at times when I do not understand. I do not mean to be naughty, but it is so frustrating when I really want to understand like my friends, but I don’t. (It won’t always look that way.)
Don’t make me call my marks out in front of the class. When everyone is getting higher marks than me, it makes me feel bad.
Understand that I do learn differently. Don’t expect me to learn the way the rest of the class learns. If the rest of the class understands something, probably I won’t, but I might be too shy to tell you. Check up on me every now and then.
Don’t ask me to read aloud in front of the class or group without letting me practise first. Give me the option of saying no to reading in front of others.
Give me time to think. If you are going to ask me a question in class, try and give me prior warning so I have the time to think of the answer. I enjoy being part of the class discussions, but I take longer to think than some and I don’t think as well when you surprise me.
Help me to pronounce words properly. It can be difficult spelling a word when I say it incorrectly.
Sometimes it is hard for me to get the right word out. My brain knows it, but it can be slow to send it to my tongue.
I can often forget what I was going to say if I have my hand up too long. Don’t draw the class’s attention to this. Just go to the next hand up and come back to me in a few minutes.
If I get angry, give me time to calm down first before you talk to me. I will be ready to listen to you then.
When I write, take time to appreciate what I have written before you correct all my spelling mistakes.
Covering my work in red pen is so depressing. Maybe you could talk to me about what needs correcting rather than putting lots of red crosses through my work.
When you tell me I am lazy or I need to try harder, it makes me want to give up because I am trying. Believe me, if I could spell the word right or read the sentence, I would.
My brain gets tired because I have to work twice as hard as my classmates. For them learning is not a struggle. For me it is a long distance race. Sometimes it is easier to let me finish the work tomorrow rather than to push me when my brain says it has had enough.
I have difficulty paying attention. It is not that I do not want to hear you or not do what you want me to do. It is just that I hear the birds outside and I stop to listen to them. I hear the girls whispering in the back row and I want to join in their conversation. And I hear the ambulance siren and I wonder where it is going. Don’t get angry at me. Just tap on my desk and quietly call my name. That reminds me to get on with the task.
Do not put me near the window. I love to gaze outside and that makes it hard for me to focus on what I am supposed to be doing.
Often I will forget instructions, especially if I have to move from one place to another. If you write them on the board as well, I will be able to see them when I forget.
Work out what is important for me. Is it really necessary for me to copy lots of information from the board? I have a poor memory and I have difficulty spelling, so when I copy from the board I do it letter by letter, not word by word. Could you make me a photocopy?
I pretend. I am very good at it. If I look like I understand, just check on me. I will often pretend so I do not look stupid, but I am not learning either.
Don’t let others butt in.
If I take a long time to get out what I want to say, please do not finish my sentences for me or guess what I am about to say. I need to express myself in my own way.
I have a poor memory. Please give me exercises to help this. This could be done as a homework exercise which would be more valuable to me than trying to do things I cannot understand.
I need more exercises to help me remember what you have taught me than most. I could do these for homework also. Things tend to pop out of my head when I sleep, so don’t be surprised if I have forgotten what you told me yesterday. Just remind me again: this will help me to remember.
I will need more time from you, so please put me near you where I can ask for help without attracting attention.